Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Computers and football

I arrived at the Canadian Institute at 8.30am to set up the computers ready for my lesson at 9am. The computers are all a bit old and have a few problems, but I have managed to get them all working, although 2 of them only work in failsafe-graphics mode, which means that they cannot handle any special graphics. The first student arrived at 9.10 and the second arrived at 9.15. I started the lesson with 2 students and, 5 minutes later, 2 more arrived.
Teaching computers in Arabic to groups rather than individuals has been challenging, but enjoyable. I can manage to communicate all the course material, but I sometimes have difficulty understanding their questions.

Useless but impressive


Today I was teaching them how to configure the special effects in Linux Ubuntu, which is of no practical use in the real world, but looks very impressive and helps people to believe me when I tell them about how Linux Ubuntu has many advantages over Microsoft Windows. The real advantages are that it is protected from virsuses without needing antivirus software, it is more stable, it is faster and it is free, but none of these things impress them as much as the fact that you can make the windows do all sorts of crazy animations when you minimise, maximise, open & close them. I finished at 10am exactly, cutting the lesson a bit short, but I am trying to teach them that if they want a full lesson, they must arrive on time. It may be a losing battle.


A Video I use to demonstrate crazy animation effects in Linux Ubuntu

Bank job

After the lesson, Adel (owner of the Institute) asked me to come with him to one of the big banks to see if they are interested in training in Linux Ubuntu. Even the big international companies end up using pirate software on their computers, because genuine copies of Microsoft Windows are simply not available. As a result they end up exposing their important data to security risks due to computer viruses and the inability to receive the latest security updates. Despite this, many people are skeptical about whether a computer is really a computer you're not using Microsoft Windows.


I followed Adel as he walked straight past all the security, up the stairs and right into the branch manager's office, without telling anyone what he was there for. Perhaps my presence helped him get away with this, since there are very few foreigners in Aden, these days. The manager was semi-interested at first, but was suddenly interested when we told him that the course can be taught either in Arabic or in English, depending on their preference. He might not be convinced about the need for Linux Ubuntu, but he is keen for his employees to come and improve their English by attending my course.

No technology in the technical college

In the afternoon, I was invited to go and speak about my course to some students studying computer science at university. I could not believe that this was the technical college when I saw that the place was falling apart and I did not see any computers anywhere. Their professor wanted them to hear about the course because he thought it would be beneficial for them, but they did not seem particularly interested. I later found out that they were about to sit an exam, after I had spoken to them, so their reaction, or lack of it, was probably more due to nervousness about the exam.

Numb Bum

In the evening, I went to one of the big squares in town, where they have been showing the world cup games on a big screen. The world cup is on expensive sports channels in the middle east and, although I have these channels on a shared satellite system in our neighbourhood, the picture is very fuzzy. It was not much better in the square, because the screen being used was too shiny and all the street lights reflected off it. Also, there were so many people watching, I couldn't get close enough. At half-time, my bum was very numb and I needed the toilet, so I decided to come home at half-time to watch the rest of the match at home. My neighbour tells me that there is another place in town where the quality of picture is better, so I may go there with him for the quarter-finals next week.


Low-definition fuzzyvision. Only available in Yemen!

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Wedding Car Accident Escalates into Fight

The wedding got off to a bad start when there was a big argument between the bride & groom's respective brothers over the issue of gunfire at the wedding. In Yemen, it is a tradition to celebrate weddings by firing guns into the air, but this is now against the law in the main cities. The groom was a policeman, so he protested strongly about the desire of the bride's brothers to fire guns as they are still accustomed to doing, in their village. 'You can't celebrate properly, unless you fire guns into the air!', they protested.



Crazy cavalcade leads to crash

The air was still not cleared between the two sides, when they embarked on the traditional cavalcade through town, where every male wedding guest, who possesses a car, drives crazily through town, flouting the non-existent highway code and endangering everyone else on the road. Traffic police turn a blind eye, unless large accidents occur. On the way to the wedding hall, the bride's brothers' car bumped into the groom's car. The groom was furious, thinking that the bride's brothers had done this on purpose, in retaliation for his refusal to allow gunfire.


Gunfire disperses fighting wedding guests

The ensuing argument was intense and the groom threatened to refuse to marry the bride. Upon hearing this, one of the bride's sisters began shouting at him and, in the most shameful incident of the day, he responded by hitting her across the legs. This caused uproar and fighting between the two sides. The situation was temporarily resolved when someone fired a gun into the air, which caused everyone to run for cover. This was somewhat ironic, considering that gunfire was the issue which started everything going down the wrong track.

Smile for the camera!

The police came and arrested one of the bride's brothers and the bride and groom continued into the ladies' party, leaving the men outside to continue their argument. Upon entering the hall, the bride was in tears and the groom was still furious, but they managed to put on a smile for the cameras. I was there, videoing the bride and groom, having been requested to do so by the bride's family. I was told to be very careful not to video anyone else at the womens' party, except for the bride and groom, since this video was for the bride's brothers to watch afterwards.

The most tasteful Yemeni wedding I have ever been to

The wedding hall was very impressive. There were big round tables seating 10 people and room for about 500 people! The stage at the front was decorated surprisingly tastefully in gold and white with (fake) flowers and a throne for two. We'd been given a little bag as we came in which had a slice of cake, biscuits and drink so we tucked into these whilst chatting with our friends.

The bride looked beautiful in a traditional white dress with lots of sequins. She had what was considered very minimal make-up for a bride (which would be over the top by our standards!). Unusually for Yemeni weddings, the bride danced by herself in front of her husband and all the guests, then they danced together in front of everyone.

Egyptian wiggling is harder

Soon the music started playing and I was encouraged to dance with our friends. It was lots of fun! I can now dance the traditional Yemeni stepping dance quite easily and the Emirati dance, but I found the hip and shoulder wiggling of the Egyptian dancing a bit tricky!

Situation resolved but the shame remains

The gossip going around the wedding hall was that the bride's family would refuse to allow the groom to take her home after the wedding because of the shameful thing he had done to their family. Somehow it was resolved, possibly through the payment of some kind of 'shame fine' by the groom to the bride's family.

Unfortunately for both the bride's and groom's families, they now have to live with the shame of the incident and the knowledge that all their friends and family know about it, and that the whole community is now talking about it.



Shame-based culture

This whole story is an illustration of the difference between guilt-based cultures (like England) and shame-based cultures (like Yemen). If this incident had happened in England, the main talking point would be the issues of fighting, reckless driving and gunfire, because we immediately start thinking about who was right and who was wrong. The bride's brothers were in the wrong because they wanted to break the law by firing guns and they drove recklessly, causing an accident. In Yemen, the big talking point is the shameful act of a man hitting a woman, and whether or not the marriage could go ahead, in the face of such shame. The shameful thing done by the groom is infinitely more serious than all of the wrong things done by the bride's brothers.